Society is good at visually appreciating butts and writing catchy songs about butts, but still not so great at understanding how we might derive physical pleasure from our own butts—especially when it comes to the prostate. With that in mind, I asked Lewis and sex and relationships advisor Lianne Young to give some tips on how you can give your partner a prostate orgasm. Medically speaking, the prostate produces a fluid that mixes with sperm to create semen.
Suddenly all my orgasms from good, old-fashioned hetero sex and self-pleasuring seemed so pedestrian. I've covered the best prostate massager s here. But you set yourself up for failure, if you have never reached the PO and try to just fiddle with fingers and hope for a bliss.
If having sex with dudes is your thing, it could be a good idea to boldly go where you've probably never gone before: a man's anus. We know, we know—it can be intimidating, and you might not even understand the appeal. But hear us out: the prostate gland, also referred to as "the P-spot," can feel hella good when stimulated, and heading to his anal region is the only way to get at it.
For many men, the idea of someone touching their prostate you know, that walnut-sized gland between the bladder and the penis sounds about as appealing as getting a root canal. But for other men — both straight and gay — exploring the prostate can bring new heights of sexual excitement and pleasure. It's so pleasurable, in fact, that some sexual health experts have dubbed the prostate the "male G-spot.
Prostate massage is the massage or stimulation of the male prostate gland for medical purposes or sexual stimulation. The prostate takes part in the sexual response cycleand is essential for the production of semen. Due to its proximity to the anterior rectal wall, it can be stimulated from the anterior wall of the rectum or externally via the perineum.
Prostate massage is a self-help technique that may benefit prostate health but one that few men actually consider or feel comfortable performing. Although some people will tell you that it helps "clear toxins" from the prostate, the aim of the massage is to stimulate the prostatic ducts to release excess seminal fluid the fluid that mixes with sperm to create semen. There are few studies that strongly support the use of prostate massage for the treatment of benign prostatic hyperplasia BPH or other prostatic conditions.
A lot by me in fact. My good friend Shira B once texted me asking how to stop it! Hint: It usually involves ejaculation.
Many people enjoy anal pleasure during solo and shared play, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation. This is because the anus is an area of our bodies that's packed with nerve endings and is highly receptive to touch. Anal stimulation has the potential to feel great for anyone with a butthole, but for men and people with a prostate, anal exploration can be especially pleasurable. Yes, it does also feel good for women and vagina-havers.
In hetero couples, there's a lot of misconceptions and taboos around anal stimulation for men. But men have all the same nerve endings that women have that makes the area feel amazing and there's one big difference: they have a prostate. Which is even more reason to get into anal play with men.