Growing up, there is so much hype built up about how your first time should be. You're told to either wait until marriage or to wait until it's with someone you love. However, that's not always the case, and whether you like it or not, losing your virginity is a memory that will stay with you forever.
But I swear that each and every word of this is true. When I was in high school I was awarded the opportunity to go on a foreign exchange to a lovely tropical paradise—ah, Brazil—for senior year. As high-school girls are prone to do, I met a guy, another exchange student.
We tend to measure masculinity in part through sexual experience. This attitude creates a lot of pressure for males, and can encourage them to think of women more as conquests than human beings. But despite the way men tend to prize the big event, having sex for the first time is a vulnerable experience.
First time sex stories relate to virgins losing their cherry. They are typically stories of teenagers making love for the first time, and the excitement and buzz that comes from that initial experimentation. Another favorite theme in this section are young men or women, losing their virginity to an older woman the 'milf' syndrome or older man - the more experienced partner educating their younger partner in the art of sex. I was naked.
Ahh your first time. All rainbows and butterflies, birds chirping and soft lighting. Finally doing the deed with the one you love in a hotel in Amsterdam, after a day spent soaking in the sights and a romantic dinner at a five star restaurant.
The reasons for this are varied, ranging from not feeling like they had control of the decision to not knowing whether their partner had had sex previously. Relationship is probably too strong a word but we knew each other. It was a Sunday.
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If you say you haven't, you're a prude. If you say you have, you're a slut. It's a trap. So spoke Ally Sheedy's character in "The Breakfast Club" on a topic that inspires continued fascination: virginity, the v-card every woman is supposed to hold onto at the time in her life when she is often obsessed with turning it in.
When we asked for the best stories about the first time you had sexwe knew there would be some weird offerings. And there definitely, definitely were. There was more than one international affair.