We tend to take vaginal lubrication for granted. It's usually there when you need it and sometimes shows up even when you don't. But it's often only when you have trouble getting wet that you even think about it.
Skip to content. My problem is about vaginal dryness. I am an otherwise healthy twenty-one-year-old female, but cannot seem to get wet enough for pleasurable sex with my husband.
You don't know if there's something wrong with you, and you don't want your partner to take it personally. Come on, vagina, you had one job! This phenomenon actually happened to me with my last boyfriend.
Image by Daring Wanderer via Stocksy. If you scour the internet for sex stuff as much as I do, you come across countless pleas from women who "don't feel anything" when they have sex. Most of these women are new to partnered sex, but some of them have been going at it since Frasie r was still on the air. Some of them have tried masturbating but still don't feel anything.
Literally everyone with a vagina should be using lube during any penetration they experience. Just like every guy has at some point experienced a rogue boner, sometimes your vagina is ready to par-tay when there are no balloons or confetti in sight. Skip navigation!
Sex should be fun, but it can also be complicated. Welcome to Sexual Resolutiona biweekly column by sex therapist Vanessa Marin that answers all your most confidential questions to help you achieve the healthy, safe, and joyful sex life that you deserve. In this column, she answers a question from a reader who has difficulty with natural lubrication.
By Petra Boynton. Is there anything I can do about it? It is stopping me enjoying sex and I feel like a failure.
Talk to your psychiatrist about switching to a different medication until you find one that works best for your mental health and your sexual health. Landa says that breastfeeding is also a common time when women have trouble with vaginal dryness due to hormones. Aging, smoking, and other factors that can cause blockage of the arteries could block small arteries in the vaginal area and reduce moisture there, Dr.
My girlfriend does not get wet no more. I feel bad writing this question out, but it has become a huge issue. When I first met my girl, she told me she had had sexual problems with her ex boyfriend.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now on to this week's question: Why you can't get wet during sexand what you can do about it.